A bit of a different post from me today, I'm sat here on my own after my boyfriend has left for home and I know I won't get to see him again for a while, so I thought I'd write this post.
He lives a 120 mile round trip away from me, both of us work full time, which means we end up seeing each other every other weekend - sometimes we only have to wait a week which is nice, but still pretty hard to deal with. We've been doing this for 4 years and it's all we've ever known, We met whilst we were at uni (he was the house mate of my best friend and I went to a seperate uni 2 hours train journey away) and we've always seen each other as often as we could. I think if we'd lived close to each other to start with and then had to do long distance it would have been harder for our relationship to survive, however whilst long distance relationships do majorly suck sometimes I think it has made our relationship stronger.
When he or I leave on the Sunday evening to make the journey back home it feels like a wrench in my stomach, I miss him instantly and my house feels empty. The positive of this is that I look forward to seeing him so much & it feels really fresh & exciting when I do get to see him again, I really make the most of seeing him so we often try and go out and do something whenever we see each other.
I'm not going to pretend it's not hard, but it does have it's positives - we both get the space & free time that we might not get if we lived closer. After 4 years together I know that soon we will start to think about moving closer together, but then that brings up the challenges of where will we live? Both of us have lives in seperate places & it's not fair for one of us to have to give it all up - but I know we will work it out and compromise in some way or another. I am confident that we will make a good team and living together will be the next step for our relationship.
And honestly? I wouldn't change our relationship at all - people may be sceptical but it works perfectly for us, I just hate having to say goodbye on the Sunday night!
Has anyone else had a long distance relationship? How do you find it? xx